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Reading Body Language Myth: Is Your Body Language Authentic?

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Truth or like choosing what body language you’re going to use in any given situation is inauthentic and so bad this is something that gets talked about a lot at the moment because people like talking about and like thinking about whether they are being authentic or not being authentic and we’re told constant yeah in authentic Matt Benton an authentic bad authentic good find my authentic self be my authentic self yeah good yes seeing authentic bad so let’s break this down a bit because this is interesting yeah um so if I put a picture on a dating site yes I am assuming that I’m going to put some nice clothes on I probably to get my hair done I make the best to you so make the best of myself and during the manga for example why you married to me why you putting the putting a picture on the side why therefore would it be incorrect to also bring the best body language forward to show the best of your site so look if I if I need to be confident in an interview right why can’t I use the body language of confidence correct because I might not be like totally confident internally I’m going oh oh I don’t know whether I’ll get this or not I don’t know whether they’ll like me or not it might be really important to me so authentically I may have some anxiety but I want to project to those interviewers my confidence to this idea of you know don’t fake it until you make it I don’t think that’s that’s accurate because you can’t fake anything that you weren’t already gonna be pretty good at in the first place you can’t do behaviors that you don’t already have something of the ability to do you’re just enhancing amplifying making bigger something that you already have you know even Picasso even Picasso would look at four Picasso’s and called them Picasso’s because he thought they were good enough so the key point is here that putting on a behavior isn’t necessarily inauthentic it’s just sometimes showing you best for more tips on body language check out our website truth plain comm and pick up our book truth and lies what people are really thinking