In people's lives There are only about seven or eight categories that really matter Most people focus on things that don't matter They know more about a celebrity coming in and out of rehab than they do about their own development If you don't take care of your body, everything else doesn't make sense, because you don't want to be the richest, but in the grave. If there is energy, if there is vitality on your side, they will appear in your relationship, It will manifest itself in business and life.
You have to master it uncompromisingly! This is too important! Emotions are everything. I mean, if you have a lot of money, You have everyone who loves you and your main emotions are angry and frustrated Then your life is angry and frustrated If you have a billion dollars or a million people who love you, your life is not cool. Relationships Especially intimate relationships and connections From there comes the most joy and pain comes for most people – it is worth mastering them instead of fighting. Really value your time? Mastering your time instead of having a checklist to scribble on can confuse movement and achievement. I want to appreciate this time, which is important to me and to all who interest and love me How about your career or business and mastering them instead of fighting. Most businesses are struggling. That is why they fail in 96% of cases over a ten-year period. 4% succeed, which does not mean that they are profitable or have fun. Nor do they make anyone else feel good …. The real mastery of money, so they are not in question So that you can do and be, give and share as much as you want To live without stress about it.
To be in abundance. And then on a spiritual level .. Honestly I don't force people to believe spiritually, but I believe that in the end, whatever you believe in, you have to live it and it will lead you to GROWTH AND DEDICATION. If you grow up, then you feel alive! If you give, you feel ten times more alive. I believe that if someone is able to celebrate and give, then he is spiritual. For me, these are the areas to master, yes – business for sure, But the most important areas of life are different and most people spend time on things that do not make us feel complete.
That is why the average person is not healthy, he is not in a relationship with great passion … I am not stupid I am not a positive thinker. I know the truth. The average person is not successful in business. He doesn't earn as much as he wants. But very few people have these things – few are happy, satisfied, spiritually alive Financially strong, their business is growing They have a passionate love affair And I'm obsessed with finding the few who do it and learning what sets them apart to pass it on to others. Everyone will be measured differently because everyone evaluates things differently Some value success or significance, others value love more … Others value basic security. So when I look at these specific indicators, I really look The metrics of things that need to be measured to know if your life will work or not. That's why I look at it as if All life is guided from moment to moment, according to our current state.
The ability to change your condition without nonsense and falsehood, but from upset, disappointed and scared – back to the center or to creativity, Either to certainty, or something that will move you forward. This will create a better quality of life for you and others This is a critical skill set. So from moment to moment, everything was determined by our condition. If you are angry, you will react differently to when you feel playful. But what controls these conditions in the long run is how you perceive the world.
Your worldview. I define it as a metric that depends on three things: I expect to see first. What are the goals you are striving for. Everyone has different goals and dreams and desires. But as I traveled around the world to 100 countries, I began to encounter the same problems. There are basically 6 human needs that we all have. We all need certainty that we can avoid pain and that we can have some pleasure We all need uncertainty. We need variety or we will feel dead inside. If you are completely sure, you will be bored. If you have full variety you will go crazy and this is not a balance! Learn what you need more as a person. Everyone has developed a set of values. The need for significance to make you feel unique, special and important, and loved. You have to feel good to grow and contribute. Some people value security at the top of their list of goals. "I do not want to do anything else I know it will work !. I don't do anything unless it's the same! "If you change something you will scare them If security is number one on the list, everyone has the same needs! I know what your life will be like.
I can predict the direction of redevelopment and therefore your achievements to some extent. If you are motivated by love, you also want security, but Love is more important, You will behave much differently than if you are guided by importance "I must be chosen! To be an example!" I'm looking to find the top 2 values in your life because they define your life! The two are common to 90% of the people on the planet, if you choose among all .. needs Everyone wants love, but which one do you focus on? Most people focus on significance. We live in a world of Facebook where people falsify their lives, put new filters to make it look different than it actually is. They tell stories that we know are complete nonsense to look good. Because we live in this kind of false world, where significance is more important than love and divides us. And the other thing we see most often is the certainty that people want to be safe before they can do something. You will not start a business if you are not absolutely sure before you start, and you will never be able to build a business like that.
You can never build a great relationship, because if it's based on definitions … Everyone must remain the same so that they never change, because they will never grow, which means that you will be unhappy. So my indicators are that I want to know what's leading. I want to see if it is healthy or unhealthy? You can have two people led by Significance, however, they do it with a different set of rules. This is the second part. I measure the beliefs that our rules have, how to fulfill this goal in order of importance I want to be clearer about something that is an extraordinary life – the life of your conditions And there are two parts: The first is to master the skills of "science of achievement". How to take what I imagine and make it real and how to make it faster, better, easier? The ability to design! What do you come up with and do in reality, as you did with your company? Yes, this is a skill set! I spend an incredible amount of time helping people cope faster and better by showing shortcuts, creating strategies By modeling what works, you can save a decade! But …
I would say, after doing it for 38 years, With 50 million people at this stage … I can tell you that in the "science of achievement" There are many people who are great at this and still don't have an extraordinary life! They have a delightful life that you see as extraordinary, but the multi billionaire is calling me And he tells me he wants to do this thing in his business, But what he really finds is that he feels pitiful and hopes to comfort him somehow. So I give him what he wants for a change in his business, But it also gets what it needs – the change inside it. So the second skill is the "art of wholeness" if you want an exceptional life, You can't just achieve it, you have to be complete. As simple as it sounds, this is art. This is not science. Making money is a science. Whatever you are, follow these steps and you will have plenty of money.
If you do these things, you will have plenty of money to do these things You will have too much money at the end of the month. You're going to have financial stress, aren't you? The body – Everyone is biochemically different from others, but we know that there are laws and basic rules. There is a science of the body, and if you break it, you will get sick, you will not have energy.
If you follow the rules, however You will have plenty of energy. This will affect everything in your life. This is science. Being full is not like that. Completeness is as different as we are. Want to know what God or the universe likes? See the jungle. Look at the forest. They are diverse, aren't they? Most people think well, I want to get this because they are modeled on someone else and it can work to achieve something, Which will never work for a man like you! What you think you want doesn't satisfy you. I always tell people success without complete satisfaction is the ultimate failure! Because if you fail and are purposeful, You do not fail.
You will learn something. You will try something else … You will keep going … but when you succeed and you are not happy. A perfect example of this is something I mentioned at a seminar, About a year ago. We lost the one I consider a national treasure – Robin Williams! And I asked people, "How many of you love Robin Williams?", Everyone raised their hands, all over the world, right? He makes people laugh, people are touched by him … So how good was he at the science of achievement? He wanted to be a great comedian to make the whole world laugh, and he did. He wanted to have his own TV show. He did it. He wanted to be number one and soup! He wanted to make movies – he did! He wanted an Oscar for not being funny.
Dramatic! And he did and said he wanted a beautiful family. He accomplished everything and hanged himself, and recently someone said, "… well, you know he had dementia drug abuse. He has been abusing alcohol for a very long time … "because he made everyone happy, without whom? Myself! This is the ultimate failure. So if I don't have another message to offer to your viewers and let me give it to them right now I will say what it is, I believe that our lives are controlled by the decisions of one force.
THE ELECTIONS. Of course, I believe in a power greater than me, call it God, if you want, if you want, call it the universe. But I also believe it gives us a CHOICE. The choices we make control us much more than the conditions we face. Choosing what to BELIEVE in, Choosing what to do and what to give. I tell people to think About 5 – 10 – 15 years ago they made a decision that they made But if it were different, they would have a completely different life today. Better or worse? I don't know, but completely different. The most important decision you can make above all on the face of the earth is The decision that no matter what happens in your life. You will live in a beautiful state The decision to tell yourself that you will not suffer, but if the suffering occurs … Pain means one thing, and suffering means another – suffering is when you suffer, it can be anxiety, it can be anger, it can be a feeling of dissatisfaction, This is all that brings you out of the state of beauty and here is what people do not understand: YOU CAN STOP SUFFERING! Stop focusing on yourself and focus on something bigger – the children, the partner, Your goal, your life.
You can get out of it in an instant, because the nature of the human mind is: The constant comparison of things! Your mind and brain are a device two million years old and are not meant to make you happy, to make you survive, right? And that's what he's always looking for. It's wrong. It must be what's wrong – a TIGER TEAR! How can I defend myself ?! And now people are worried about what other people think of them.
Or do they have enough money when two-thirds of the planet live on $ 2 a day and you do $ 38,000 means you're rich. The poorest of the poor in our country are considered rich! I'm not saying they should stay that way, but you can only build on success, and my goal is to think of something Life is short. We don't know how short it will be. But if I only had a week to live, I bet you'll afford to suffer for a little nonsense that usually drives you crazy.
I think you're probably going to spend time with those who love you, doing what you love, You will watch the sunset, you will smell the air You will take everything in these last moments, and you can do so! Why wait, why not just decide? That if I start to suffer, I know the solution, because the suffering is me Obsessive to me.
You can say, "It's not me. I'm worried about my kids because they're not doing well." No, you're worried you haven't done enough for your children. That's selfish, isn't it? YES You know you're worried about what was done or what you should have done or what you shouldn't have done, and you can put an end to it. In an instant, realizing it and saying that I have made the most important decision of all! I will live in a wonderful condition for me! Because here's what will happen: Anyone who watches can lose a family member, maybe someone can get cancer Business – the government can change the rules.
They can change things radically. You can't even do anything for yourself. You can go bankrupt, you can get a divorce. Nobody knows what will really happen in your life as insecurity … But here's what you can know, that you can decide, no matter what happens YOU COULD HAVE FUN, if someone like Victor Frankl can be locked up in Auschwitz and get out of it and In their attempt to find joy in the midst of Auschwitz, then human beings have the capacity, which they underestimate! We think that the outside world determines how we will feel. People need to behave in a certain way if your husband or wife, or your children, or your colleagues, or any boss you have to behave in a certain way to be happy and if they don't make you unhappy, then you will always be unhappy because The more people around you, the more they will change, because they are all human beings. My invitation is as great as it is to be achieved it is more important to enjoy and if you can enjoy every moment in this state when you feel loving and playful, passionate, curious and reverent, treating other people hundreds of times better when you feel frustrated, overwhelmed, worried, stressed or sorry.
You will be a better parent. You will be a better lover! You will be a better businessman again! A better life. So my call is DECIDE! DECIDE TODAY! And actually say what if you cut it? What if you say you don't want to reconcile and just live in IN WONDERFUL CONDITION. It does not mean that you will not feel bad, nor that you will remain negative. You will change immediately. But what the hell is success? This is the achievement of an expectation. And I always tell people to replace their expectations with gratitude. This is a whole new world! You can appreciate this moment! If you can't find ecstasy, in that moment, in a conversation with a friend or in the look of your wife, To be with your children, to run … If you can't find fun NOW, I'm here to tell you that more money more people, more love, more business, more anything will not give you more pleasure if you can not do it here and now! You will not do it when you have more. So what am I doing now and I have a rich life right now ..
I tell people Money is one thing – to have financial abundance, you need skills. This is science. But prosperity is a CHOICE. Now you can be rich and wealthy. I live in Fiji most of the time. There are these villagers. They are the richest people! They are happy, laughing … They love! They don't care about an economy where other people say they are poor. When I first went there, I was trying to do things for them. And they said to me, "What are you talking about? I'm so happy!" The scalded people come from the United States and go around and try to figure out what to do and spend 9 years, so that they can finally sit down and be happy and then the man from Fiji says: Why not sit on the beach right now? Why wait nine years? Why didn't it happen now? This is my invitation.